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If you believe you’ve found \n" ); document.write( " your soul mate, but still feel unfulfilled, chances are that you \n" ); document.write( " aren’t confident enough to share your authentic self in the \n" ); document.write( " relationship. And if you want to be deeply loved and cultivate closeness, \n" ); document.write( " you must learn to trust your instincts. This is the only path to \n" ); document.write( " the level of trusting in a relationship that will allow you to cultivate \n" ); document.write( " the best in each other and enjoy fulfilling intimate time with your \n" ); document.write( " partner. Let go of the low self-esteem that’s holding you \n" ); document.write( " back and fall absolutely in love!

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We all want to be loved for who \n" ); document.write( " we are. But how can we get that if low self-esteem makes us uncomfortable \n" ); document.write( " being who we are? To find fulfillment and cultivate closeness with \n" ); document.write( " your soul mate, you must feel safe to share your authentic self \n" ); document.write( " in the relationship. In other words, the relationship must be built \n" ); document.write( " on trust.

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How does one become trusting in \n" ); document.write( " a relationship? First, you must build beliefs and practices that \n" ); document.write( " allow you to trust yourself. This attitude adjustment is accomplished \n" ); document.write( " by learning to trust your instincts and feelings. If a situation \n" ); document.write( " happens in your relationship that makes you feel uncomfortable (and \n" ); document.write( " it most likely will), recognize it! Then take the steps to communicate \n" ); document.write( " this to your partner.

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If this is difficult for you, ask \n" ); document.write( " yourself why. Perhaps you were never allowed to express your true \n" ); document.write( " feelings as a child and, even though you want to be deeply loved, \n" ); document.write( " you are carrying beliefs such as "Nothing I say is important," \n" ); document.write( " or "My feelings don’t count for anything." On \n" ); document.write( " a separate note, perhaps your current partner isn’t there \n" ); document.write( " for you emotionally and doesn’t take the time to listen. This \n" ); document.write( " certainly would create some insecurity in the relationship. It is \n" ); document.write( " important to look at it from all angles with the reminder that your \n" ); document.write( " feelings are your guide and your friend.

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Perhaps you worry about whether \n" ); document.write( " your partner will accept you for who you are. Again, look into the \n" ); document.write( " past to see if there are any clues. And when you feel ready, communicate \n" ); document.write( " this to your partner in a loving way. The only way to feel safe \n" ); document.write( " and confident is to start feeling safe and confident in the little \n" ); document.write( " ways. In other words, one must become vulnerable and test the trustworthiness \n" ); document.write( " of the partner in order to cultivate feelings of security. If you \n" ); document.write( " want to be deeply loved, you must trust your instincts and share \n" ); document.write( " your authentic self. It can be an amazing process and once it begins, \n" ); document.write( " it grows and grows gloriously as you cultivate the best in each \n" ); document.write( " other. When one of the participants in the relationship opens up, \n" ); document.write( " the other usually does, and vice versa. The comfort level rises \n" ); document.write( " to new and wonderful heights and enhances your intimate time with \n" ); document.write( " your partner.

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Would you like to explore more powerful emotions that affect your \n" ); document.write( " life? Check out The Attitude Doc's book Attitudes, \n" ); document.write( " Beliefs and Choices.

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Article courtesy of Alexandra Delis-Abrams, aka The Attitude Doc.
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